One small step toward feeling like yourself again.
Neurodiversity-affirming, trauma-informed therapy for individuals, families and youth. Right here in London, Ontario, and online across Ontario.
You Came Here For Healing
At Black Onyx Counselling & Wellness, we help individuals and families reconnect with their truth, release survival mode, and return to a grounded sense of wholeness. We hold space for your full humanity: the messy, the beautiful, the in-between. See us in person in London, or online anywhere in Ontario.
Who are you looking for support for?
Choose the one that fits best. If you're not sure, that's okay. A free consult is the easiest place to start.
How we can help
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Individual
Individual counselling is a space for you to show up exactly as you are and be met with a compassionate, non-judgemental therapist who can help you find a better path forward. Tailored to your unique needs and goals, our individual therapy sessions provide a confidential space to explore these challenges.
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Family and Parents
Having kids is hard. Having kids who have unique needs is even harder. Whether you are looking for parenting support or managing your own mental health symptoms, we can help you feel better able to manage the challenges you are facing.
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Children & Youth
Kids and teens don't always have the words for what they're feeling. Our therapists meet them where they are, with a warm, neurodiversity-affirming space to work through big emotions, school stress, friendships and changes at home, at their own pace.
Our Team of Expert Therapists
What happens next
1. Book a free consult. Tell us a little about what’s bringing you in.
2. Find your therapist. We’ll help you choose someone whose experience fits what you need, or you can pick from our team yourself.
3. Start your sessions, in person in London or online anywhere in Ontario.
Fees vary by therapist and type of service. We offer sliding scale options and affordable counselling packages, so reach out and we’ll help you find a plan that fits your budget.
Together, We Can Explore:
"Am I living a life that's truly mine, or am I just fulfilling others' expectations of who I should be?"
Personal Identity
Trauma and Development
"Am I living according to my authentic self and desires, or are my actions and choices driven by unresolved trauma and past experiences?"
Family and Relationships
"How do I stay true to myself while still being a supportive and caring family member or partner?"
Emotional Balance
"Why do I feel so overwhelmed by my emotions, and how can I find a sense of inner calm and control?"
Stress and Anxiety
"Why does everything feel so overwhelming, and how can I cope with this constant sense of worry and tension?"
Articles & Resources
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Feeling Lost, Lonely, or Overwhelmed? You're Not Alone
Support for Neurodivergent Individuals and Families in London, Ontario
Life has a way of testing us. Some days feel heavy. You might find yourself crying over the same thing again and again, feeling embarrassed to even bring it up. Or watching everyone else seem to move forward while you feel stuck in the same place. You know comparison isn’t helpful, but it still sneaks in.
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Mental Health and Relationships: 4 Steps to Stay Connected Without Losing Yourself
Struggling to support a partner with mental health challenges?
It is possible to care deeply for someone and still feel completely overwhelmed. If you have ever found yourself saying “my mental health is ruining my relationship” or “I am ending a relationship because of my mental health,” this post is for you. -

ADHD and Time Management as a Mom: 4 Realistic Tips That Actually Help
Struggling with time management as an ADHD mom? Here are 4 realistic tips to help you get out the door on time without the usual advice you’ve heard before!
Remember life before kids? You sometimes got places on time, right?
Let’s work together
Not sure where to start? Send us a short message and we’ll help you find the right therapist. You don’t need to have the words figured out, and everything you share stays confidential.
Starting therapy is an act of self-love and bravery. It's the beginning of a journey toward understanding yourself better and finding the peace and healing you deserve.